A books and articles list,
in idiosyncratic order
SENSITIVITY
Elaine Aron’s books: The Highly Sensitive Person, The Highly Sensitive Person in Love, The Highly Sensitive Child, and The Undervalued Self
The Highly Sensitive Boy by Ted Zeff
Empath’s Survival Guide by Judith Orloff
Trust Yourself: Stop Overthinking and Channel Your Emotions for Success at Work by Melody Wilding
Sensitive by Andre Sólo and Jenn Granneman
Quiet by Susan Cain (for sensitive introverts)
PARENTING
Parenting From the Inside Out by Siegel & Hartzell
Parenting with Love and Logic by Cline & Fay
DATING
How To Not Die Alone by Logan Ury
Love Factually by Duana Welch
COUPLES/MARRIAGE/LOVE
Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work and others by the Gottmans
Esther Perel -- various plus socials
Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix
Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson
DIVORCE/COPARENTING
Ex-Etiquette for Parents by Jann Blackstone-Ford
The Kickass Single Mom by Emma Johnson
BOUNDARIES
Set Boundaries to Find Peace and Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships by Nedra Glover Tawwab
Boundaries by Cloud & Townsend
The Assertiveness Workbook by Randy J. Paterson
FAMILY DYSFUNCTION/NARCISSISM
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson
Disarming the Narcissist by Wendy T. Behary
DEPRESSION
Mind Over Mood by Greenberger and Padesky
Don’t Believe Everything You Feel by Robert Leahy
ANXIETY
Mastery of Your Anxiety & Worry by Craske & Barlow
Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life by Steven Hayes
SEX
Come As You Are and Come Together by Emily Nagoski
Passionista and She Comes First by Ian Kerner
Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Minsk
Sex at Dawn by Ryan & Jetha
Polysecure by Jessica Fern
TRAUMA
Becoming Safely Embodied by Deidre Fay